These concepts are generally used for Function modules or Subroutines etc. and their meaning can be taken literally.
Say we are passing a variable lv_var:
     VAR  = lv_var. 
When we PASS lv_var by VALUE , the actual value of lv_var is copied into VAR.
When we PASS lv_var by REFERENCE , the reference or the memory address of lv_var is passed to the Function module. So VAR and lv_var will refer to the same memory address and have the same value.

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